What DBT wrote, except as a teenage *girl* I was strongly aware of the crazy gender bias... it goes all hardcore sexist in the second or third book in the series... which is when I decided the prose wasn't high quality enough to deal with the giggly women learning how "best to treat their husbands."

Reading through the second test, I realize that my DH is constantly passing it with his engineering friends. It makes some of their conversations make a bit more sense. (And I am glad to be an active part of his world.)