Bollocks. Just be yourself. If you are worried that you will offend people then you are just a brown nosing liar afraid to show your true self. Beauty = truth. Everything else is bunch of sycophantic crap you can't trust. No one likes a faker. Don't be a clone. Oooh how exciting, a team of people all copying one another, all trying to be alike, not wanting to offend. Oooh can I come to lunch and sit and make some inoffensive conversation with you, you're bound to like it. A thousand years on your knees or one day standing? In the words of Trevor the Skinhead: Bollocks!